I te kitenga o tetahi tangata a Mindie Kaplan ka utu ia mo tana whakamatautau tere mo te ra tuarua (kai i tona whare), ka miharo ia.
Ka kii a Kaplan: "Kei te pirangi au ki te mohio mena koinei te mea hou'ko te hoko kai he rite ki te noho mo te po'," ko ta Kaplan e noho ana i Chelsea.Ko ia he kaihokohoko pāpāho pāpori me te kaiwhakarewa o te podcast me te raupapa ataata MaleRoom.
I whakaae te tokorua ki te hui ki tetahi whare whakamatautau tere i te taha ki runga ki te Hauauru.I a raua e tatari ana mo te hua, ka haere raua ki te takiwa ki te inu.
"He rua kei roto i taku kopu, 'Me pehea taku takaro?'" ka kii a Kaplan, kaore i whakaae ki te whakapuaki i tona tau."I rite ia, 'Tirohia to waea.He hua ano?'”
Ka kii ia: "I kii ahau kei te kino te mahi a te taupānga ka kii atu ki a ia kua roa aku hua."I penei, kua mutu te po.
Ko etahi o nga tangata o Niu Ioka ka mahi i nga mea katoa ka taea e ratou ki te hono, tae atu ki te whakarite i tetahi whakamatautau tere i mua i te ra o Valentine, ka eke ki te $129 te utu i runga i to inihua.Engari ka whakatupato nga tohunga ka mahi noa te whakamatautau mena ka tika te mahi.
Ko Dara Cass, he taote rongoa ohorere i Columbia University Medical Center i New York City, i kii ko te tikanga me mahi taratahi i te tuatahi.
"Mena kei te whakamahere koe ki te whakatau mo te wa tuatahi i te ra o Valentine, he aha nga tupono ka wehea e tetahi atu nga hoa katoa, te whanau me te waahi mahi?"Ka mea a Cass."Ko te tikanga ko enei whakamatautau ka whakaponohia nga tangata kaore te tangata i pangia."
Ko te whakamatautau tere i mua i te teití ka nui ake pea te whai tikanga haumanu atu i te whakakotahitanga, engari he maha nga kaiwhaiwhai e whakapono ana koinei anake te huarahi ki te uru ki tenei mara.
I te wa tuatahi i timata ai a Jonah Feingold ki te mataku, ka mahi ia i te popcorn me nga paramanawa ki tona kainga mo te wa tuatahi.
"I tiimata taku roro ki runga i te momo huaketo," e kii ana a Feingold, 30, e noho takitahi ana i Greenpoint."I mohio ahau me korero ahau mo te tirotiro me te wahine i haere mai ki taku whare i taua po ki te matakitaki i tetahi kiriata me ahau."
I karangahia e ia tana hoa he kaiako kindergarten Manhattan e noho tahi ana me ona matua, a ka tohutohu tonu ia ki a raua kia tere te whakamatautau i mua i te hui.
I kii a Feingold, te kaihanga kiriata me te kaihautu mo te Seeing Other People: "Kei te pirangi maua kia whakamatauria kia kaua e awangawanga i nga wa katoa ka noho tahi."Whanaungatanga.
Ahakoa karekau he tangata i whakaatu i a raatau mahi tinana, i kii a Feingold he tino maia ratou ki te tuku karere kuputuhi i te ra katoa ki te whakauru i te haerenga, tae atu ki te tuku whaiaro ki a raatau ano i te wa o te whakamatautau ipurangi.
Ka mutu ka ringihia ki roto i te peihana popcorn ano, ae, ko etahi o nga kihi i uru-kare he kanohi.
I kii ia: "Ki taku whakaaro me whakaaro koe mo te whānuitanga e hiahia ana koe ki te whai oranga aroha, ahakoa ka mahia e koe nga mea katoa kia noho haumaru."
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Wā tuku: Feb-24-2021